Christian Relationship
Coaching with
Kelvin and Celeste
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How do I stop having so many unhealthy arguments with my spouse?
Studies suggest that the first minute of a conversation often dictates how it will end emotionally. If a conversation begins negatively, consider postponing it until a calmer moment. We call this the tool of postponement. This tool will significantly decrease the amount of unhealthy discussions you engage in. This tool prevents you from making issues in your relationship worse. It also helps you to work on your self-control and monitor your own internal feelings.
The other important thing is to schedule a time when you will come back together and discuss things. It is unhealthy to just tell your partner I’m done talking to you. To postpone is to put something off until a more suitable moment.
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Meet Kelvin and Celeste Gaskins
Christian Relationship Coaches
Kelvin is a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, and Celeste has Bachelor's in Sociology. Kelvin and Celeste have been married for over 30 years. They understand the challenges of marriage and know the redemptive power of God’s grace. They know that the many struggles couples face could be lessened with the right tools. They cringe and also laugh with amusement that their premarital coaching was one session and literally the minister said “Do you have any questions?” This lack of knowledge led to years of frustrating interactions. Once they learned the proper tools to use, their marriage continued to grow. They want others to benefit from their journey to wholeness. Their ministry was formed from their pain. Their mess became their message.
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